Ladies:Everything in its own time!!!!!!!!!

Ladies: Do not become wives before your time. While I was at varsity I was so shocked to hear of girls who would do laundry for their boyfriends, clan his room, others even went as far as doing groceries and then allowing the boyfriend to keep it in his room, because that is where she cooks supper for the both of them.. I was so shocked the one day while walking with a class mate of mine, when she said that she has to rush quickly and go make supper for her boyfriend because he likes his supper at 6pmI was like ok, maybe I AM OLD SCHOLL, BUT THTS IS JUST OUT.

The truth is this that yes there are men who have not yet awakened*if they is such, but they exist* to their responsibility as a man, and such men will abuse you, especially when they see how attached you are to them. If you insist on buying groceries and keeping them at his room, he won’t say no, he will do what he sees you enjoying doing, and he benefits as well, SO why would he say no!

Nothing and maintain nothing will put together what GOD has not ordained. You can cook him a thousand of meals, take his laundry to the best Laundromat but if God did not permit your union, it will end within a blink of an eye. Your cooking, sex, running chores, must not be done to prove that you love him. If you have to work to seal your love for each other, then it is isn’t it.

Love is so easy, it doesn’t salve away, it doesn’t have to prove itself, it doesn’t have to get approval.  It works all by itself at the right time. So young ladies, don’t try so had to be loved that you be slave to man who doesn’t not know your worth. Find a lover, Christ that will sticks by you, not by your works, but because loving you is who he is and what he delights in.